Needless to say a lot of dating coaches didn’t like the idea, when you have 00 bootcamps riding on the idea that looks don’t matter, you don’t want someone going around fucking up your business model. Despite what every sales book tells you, selling is 90% product.
You’re a salesman, the product is you, your demand is based on your sexual market value, if you have a shit product no one will want you no matter how good your allows me to get women but my value is the limiting factor, my ticket to play, without my value I’d be denied entry and have to play in a lower league.
I was once seeing a guy (hindsight; total knob) who declared an hour and a half the time he was supposed to turn up for a date, that he actually wasn’t going to, then, spent the whole of that evening texting me with how much he missed me/likes me/wants to be with me. The Facebook Flirt: Those who flirt relentlessly with others over Facebook (posting suggestive messages on walls; hinting at plans to ‘catch up’; signing off with winks and kisses) and the like, to keep their love interest ‘on their toes’. The Fisherpeople: This species constantly tries to ‘bait’ their love interests for reactions.
The one who does this is subject to being caught like any other player.Eventually guys got tired of spitting corny openers and memorizing long routines and moved on towards a more natural style based on emulating players who PUA’s call “naturals”, meaning guys who are naturally good with women.Through all these evolutions though the faulty foundation the community was built on remained intact, that guys could get hot women without being good looking themselves.A harmless text every now and then might not seem that bad, but remember you might be playing with someone’s feelings.In this situation, it’s best to be frank and tell the person you like them but aren’t sure if you want a relationship."That's a wee bit better," was the player's verdict at the finish.